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WHEN I FIRST MET FAY
FRANSELLA I FIRST MET GEORGE KELLY |
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Peggy Dalton
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Personal Construct Psychology Association,
London, UK |
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When I
first met Fay I first met George Kelly. In the pages of a book called Personal Change and Reconstruction. I was
working at the time as a speech therapist, specialising in stuttering.
Along
with a number of colleagues I was dissatisfied with the largely
behavioural
approaches to treatment that were offered us. Something more was
needed.
Something deeper that would bring about second order change, not just
first
order change. Fay’s research for the book focused on elaborating the
experience
of fluency, rather than trying to eliminate the stuttering and it made
perfect
sense. Her ideas came to form the basis of some of my own, not only
related to
stuttering but to all communication problems and, indeed, to life
itself. This
work has inspired therapists and others from all over the world.
I was
about to embark on some reading when Fay advertised an introductory
course in
PCP. It seemed just what I wanted. And it turned out to be the most
enlightening course I’d ever attended. To begin with I sat there rather
bemused
in company with some very experienced counsellors and psychotherapists.
But I
soon got over my thoughts of being ‘just a speech therapist’ as I
realised that
the others were as enthralled and stretched as I was.
When
that course was over we demanded more. Which was how the Advanced
Course came
about. This was held in Fay and Roy’s
house and was the high-light of my week. I don’t know how long
Fay had been brooding over creating a Centre for PCP but one day she
told me
something of her ideas for it and, to my amazement, asked me to work
with her
to get it started.
From
this point on I am thoroughly dislodged. As I was involved with its
very
beginnings I feel I ought to be able to produce a neat early history.
Unfortunately, so much has happened in my working and my private life
since
then that I can only retrieve some unstructured memories. But as they
seem to
hold something of the essence of those early days I’ll describe a few
of them.
The
first that comes to mind is a day when I went to Fay’s house. She
opened the
door without a word, led me into the sitting-room and pointed to the
table. On
it was half a bottle of champagne and two glasses. This could only mean
that
the offer Fay had put in for a house in Warwick Way had
been accepted. Then followed some weeks of builders tearing down walls,
volunteers painting, deliveries of furniture and so on. And we didn’t
wait for
all this to be completed before we started new courses and took on
clients.
Then
there is the memory of a robbery. Fay and Roy were on holiday and one
morning I
was in the basement talking to a colleague. When I came upstairs into
the main
office I found the equipment cupboard doors wide open and the
tape-recorders
and OHPs gone. It really was no wonder. The front door was wide open
and
workmen in and out all the time. We had a frantic day with policemen
adding to
the bodies filling the house. The workman were most indignant at being
questioned. By the evening the equipment had been found and the young
men who
had taken it caught. It was my birthday.
A very
different occasion was the day of Fay’s ‘launch’. I can just remember
people
crammed into the office. Reporters asking questions, friends saying
supportive
things. Then came the high spot of the day. Three lovely ladies entered
in long
black dresses and diamond necklaces. No - they were probably diamante.
How they
managed to stand upright in the crush I don’t know, let alone sing.
Their faces
were barely six inches from their audience. But they gazed steadfastly
at the
back wall, looking relaxed and serene. One of the singers blew a note
on a
pan-pipe and they sang perfectly in tune unaccompanied. I’ve no idea
how they
left. I sometimes wonder whether they did leave or would one day be
found
squashed in some forgotten corner.
Courses
continued to be developed and students began to come from Ireland
as well as the rest of Britain. Later they were to come from as far away as Jugoslavia.
Projects
were designed for companies like British Airways. Client numbers began
to build
up.
People
had demanded some recognition of the work they were doing on the
Advanced
Course and so the Diploma was born. A Diploma Board was set up to
design the
Diploma, then to monitor the work through assessment. I’ve never been
too
comfortable on Committees or Boards, especially as I always seemed to
be
lumbered with doing the Minutes. The Diploma Board was different. We
were
developing something new to PCP and at each meeting we moved forward
another
step. We went out to lunch afterwards in those early days and I was in
the
company of some of my favourite people. I’m going to show off here: I
was the
first to gain the Diploma in Psychotherapy and Counselling. I’ll never
forget
the occasion of the first awards as Don Bannister, Gavin Dunnett and
Tom
Ravenette were all present.
I do
remember well some residential Workshops we put on. They took place in
a kind
of barn, round which there was a group of pretty cottages way up
in…well, way
up… I’d
never been to one before the first and was rather bemused. I expected a
nice
friendly occasion of discussion and experiential work and couldn’t
understand
why people got upset from time to time. Someone told me solemnly that
it was
the mark of a powerful workshop if there were some tears! Come the
second
workshop I was in a role-play with the workshop leader and something
hit me
right in the gut. I understood. Clearly I had been closed on the first
occasion, not this time.
Fay
always encouraged us to do our own thing and I was interested in
working with
children. Teaching on Foundation Courses I’d gone on about PCP not
being
dependent on words alone. That it could be used with those without
language.
No-one seemed to believe me. I ran a workshop called Beyond Words. I
had a
burst of invention of non-verbal procedures. I was up half the night
before the
workshop, pulling faces ranging from agony to ecstasy, in order to
produce visual
emotional constructs .When I think about it, these procedures have
stood me in
good stead ever since. I was feeling quite pleased with my efforts
until I
realised that no-one, but no-one, had cried.
Then I
had to leave the Centre. Due to family illness I could no longer be
sure of
being free to work. And by the time things improved for me the courses
had been
separated from the other activities of the Centre and Ray Evans took
them over
under the auspices of PCP Education and Training. I joined him and
others but
many of us had roles in both companies.
When Fay
and Roy moved down to Falmouth, although we were still in touch I saw less of her. This
was when I
began to bless the invention of the email. It has done a lot to extend
our
relationship. We have done some chapters together and a book, Personal Construct Counselling in Action.
I’ve always enjoyed writing with Fay.
And now
the Centre has joined the University and there is the prospect of more
frequent
meetings. I look forward to many events in the future.
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The article is based
on a talk given at the conference on 'PCP: a personal story' organised
by
the Centre for Personal Construct at the University of Hertfordshire, UK,
on September 29, 2006. |
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ABOUT THE
AUTHOR
Peggy
Dalton. I went to Oxford fondly
imagining I'd be an English Teacher. By the end of my stay there I had
decided
to go into the theatre. After ten years of that I thought I could spend
my time
more fruitfully and trained to be a Speech Therapist. Some years later
I was
disatisfied with my understanding of the psychological aspects of
speech and Langage difficulties and studied for the PCP Diploma. Its probably a
bit late
to start anything else, but psychodrama? Email: Daltonpcp@aol.com.
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REFERENCE
Dalton,
P. (2007). When I first met Fay Fransella I first met George Kelly. Personal
Construct Theory & Practice, 4, 9-10
(Retrieved
from http://www.pcp-net.org/journal/pctp07/dalton07.html)
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Received: 30 December 2006 – Accepted: 5 January
2007 –
Published: 31 January 2007
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